Carla Stephens Celebrates Finding Fifty With an Intimate Evening Rooted in Reflection, Self-Knowledge, and Womanhood

On a beautiful evening in Midtown Atlanta, Georgia, guests gathered at an exclusive location to celebrate author, entrepreneur, and television personality Carla Stephens for the release of her new book, Finding Fifty: 50 Questions to Ask Before Turning 50.

Clench Magazine

4/23/20265 min read

On a beautiful evening in Midtown Atlanta, Georgia, guests gathered at an exclusive location to celebrate author, entrepreneur, and television personality Carla Stephens for the release of her new book, Finding Fifty: 50 Questions to Ask Before Turning 50. The atmosphere was warm, elegant, and intentional, filled with women, media, creatives, family, friends, and supporters who came together for an evening centered on reflection, conversation, and the beauty of becoming.

Carla Stephens, known to many from Bravo’s Mother Funders, has long carried herself with the grace of a woman who understands the power of knowing herself. As an author, entrepreneur, television personality, wife, mother, and co-founder of a successful transportation company, Carla has built a life that reflects resilience, discipline, and vision. With Finding Fifty, she is using her voice to help women think more honestly about aging, purpose, peace, identity, and the next chapter of their lives.

Throughout the evening, Carla read excerpts from Finding Fifty and offered guests a deeper look into the philosophies that shaped the book. One of the most powerful messages she shared centered on identity: “The power in knowing who you are helps you reject who you are not.”

The statement resonated throughout the room because it speaks to something many women understand deeply. Life can place women in roles before they have time to fully define themselves. Responsibility, motherhood, marriage, career, survival, heartbreak, ambition, and expectation can all shape the way a woman moves through the world. Carla’s message reminded guests that self-knowledge is one of the strongest forms of protection. When a woman knows who she is, she becomes less available for spaces, relationships, standards, and limitations that were never meant for her. She stops confusing endurance with purpose. She stops shrinking to make other people comfortable. She begins choosing from a place of clarity.

That clarity is at the heart of Finding Fifty. The book reframes midlife as a season of reflection, renewal, and personal redesign. Through 50 thoughtful, soul-stirring questions, Carla invites women to explore identity, aging, purpose, love, fulfillment, spirituality, regret, courage, and self-discovery. The questions are not presented as quick answers or easy fixes. They are invitations to pause, listen inward, and tell the truth about where you are, what you want, what you have survived, and what still deserves to be created.

One of the evening’s most memorable moments came through a powerful interactive activity. Each guest received a tape measure, with every inch representing one year of life. The full tape measure represented the average human lifespan. Guests were invited to cut the tape measure at their current age, creating a visual reminder of how much life has already been lived and how much still remains to be honored.

The room shifted during that moment. Some guests looked at the piece in their hands with gratitude. Others reflected quietly. The exercise made time feel real, personal, and precious. Whether someone was approaching 50, already beyond it, or decades away from it, the message landed clearly: life is happening now. Joy cannot always be postponed. Peace cannot always wait. The life you have still deserves your attention, your intention, and your full presence.

That is what makes Finding Fifty meaningful for women across generations. For women under 50, it serves as a guide to prepare for midlife with greater confidence, comfort, and self-awareness. For women over 50, it offers an opportunity to regain footing, protect peace, and embrace the chapter they are living with honesty and grace. Carla’s work gives women permission to ask better questions, release outdated expectations, and step into the version of themselves that experience has been preparing them to become. Her message is simple and powerful: “Midlife isn’t a breakdown, it’s a breakthrough. You didn’t live this long to shrink. You lived this long to step fully into who you are.”

The celebration welcomed an impressive mix of special guests and supporters, including renowned makeup artist Nachera Brown of Makeup Madness by Cherry, who shared heartfelt congratulations, along with Shereé Whitfield of The Real Housewives of Atlanta, multiple media outlets, photographers, dear family, friends, and fans. Throughout the evening, guests connected over wine, conversation, photos, and shared admiration for Carla’s newest chapter.

As the night unfolded, Finding Fifty became a conversation around womanhood, wisdom, standards, peace, and the courage to keep evolving. Carla’s presence was warm, grounded, and deeply purposeful as she spoke to women who are ready to live with more clarity and intention.

Carla Stephens is excited, ready, and available to bring Finding Fifty to more women through book tours, speaking engagements, panels, women’s events, and intimate conversations across the country. With a message rooted in self-discovery, confidence, and personal truth, Carla is prepared to connect with audiences who are ready to reflect, reset, and fully step into their next chapter.

Finding Fifty: 50 Questions to Ask Before Turning 50 asks readers to consider questions such as:

What beliefs must I let go of to embrace this chapter fully?
What areas of my life feel unfulfilled?
Is aging something I want to fight or understand?
Do I have wisdom to pass on?
What is the bar I measure my life with?
Does this chapter of my life need redesigning?

These questions create space. Space to tell the truth. Space to grieve what was lost. Space to celebrate what survived. Space to imagine what is still possible.

On that beautiful Midtown Atlanta night, Carla Stephens reminded every woman in the room that becoming does not stop at a certain age. Peace can still be found. Purpose can still be refined. Joy can still be chosen. Life can still be redesigned.

This chapter is the rewrite.